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Nancy s Corner Technology today

The telephone

Why were you afraid to pick up the phone...Your job is find who will need your business or service . What are you afraid of and why do you hesitate to make the first call..is because someone will say no and reject you. 

Will someone turn you down , hang up to you and maybe rude to you ..hurt your

feelings inside..all of these are possible. But remember that person will never know what you offer unless you take the first step.

Make a plan with the call..what are the reasons for the call and mostly what are the benefits for the person to sign up with you.. That benefit is why the person will eventually maybe due business with you. Very odd this happens with the first phone call...Your job is ask to send more information, You are asking permission to send them an email ..to further explain about you and why you should do business together. But more ..Who you Are...Where You are from ..all those questions to be answered. Who What Where Why ..and how will connecting with your Company benefit mine..that is the bottom line. 

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Parenting and learning

When a child is born and the Mother picks up the baby for the first time , there is a special bond created between Mother and Child. The child learns what safety is and who he can count on for his every need, from being fed , to clean diapers , to feeling sad and irritable or any other feeling. A mother is there to teach and connect with her child.

The child learns in the first few months to be able to see and grasp as his hand start to explore his world. And how does he learn by picking up everything and putting it in his mouth.

By taste and texture his brain starts to develop brain patterns of what is good and what has an unpleasant taste or smell or feel. As his world grows and expands from being in one place on a blanket , the young child learns to strengthen his arms and legs and masters the art of movement of crawling.

The first extent of crawling is often backwards. We praise and encourage this movement but also on the look out now what the baby can touch and what might cause harm to the baby.

His world is expanding and a Mothers role is to let him explore but within limits. The mobile at bedtime with soft music teaches the child to learn to relax to the sound of music and also to learn to grasp and reach out for what he sees. This a great start and one of the milestones of his development.

Why is it a milestone , it is then with watching and observing we know the child can see and hear and his brain is developing on the steps . A child can not miss one of these steps in his development or there is a difficulty later in learning for this child. As movement and strength increases so does the childs world even more, he is becoming able to walk , not steady at first but to walk from one piece of furniture to another. To be encouraged to let go, that it is a safe thing.

To take a leap of faith when he is unsure of what he is doing. In the next stages we have the child exploring everything he can and also learning the first words from his partent No ..Dont Touch . He is not aware of what this means until the same behaviour is repeated on a constant basis.

He is also learning that he is a separate being from his parents and as his parents start a routine, a child will often become irritable. I dont want to go to bed, I want to be with you ..I am lonely and will cry

. He knows if he cries his parents will come very quickly and pick him up to stop crying and he will do this like clockwork as he is educating his Parents on his ability and what he wants. It becomes a battle , child over parent and the little bundle can become a handful very early in life.

The child is also learning to communicate his needs by about 15 months , he is able to point and also verbally in his own dialogue what he wants and needs.

These cries and small word garbles are the first ways of communication. This will develop later into actual words, by 18 mths a child is able to say Momma and Poppa or Grandma and also the names of his siblings and also pets that do reside in the same house with the child.

The child is still developing his limits and will test them on a constant basis to ensure his needs are heard. He also craves human toucn, babies who are not touched and held do not develop and retreat into their own little world and do not thrive.

The more a child is stimulated and the learning takes place the child is then able to progress from a baby to a toddler. The toddler phase or also known as the terrible twos.

Here the happy toddler is learning to test the limits to his boundries and will often cry and scream and lay down on the floor to have a screaming melt down.

If a parent pays attention to the this behaviour you will have bigger problems of the child displaying this type of learning . You and the child will be at odds with each other.

A parent might think they have failed their child..its a process that happens and repeats in each generation.

The child is also learning about books and music and as the month progress to hold toddler pencils and crayons in their hands. It is encouraged for the child to make marks on paper.

You had better watch this closely as the child might eat the crayons..it has happens before .

Is it better to home school the child that he learns from the parents or to go to a rigid class schedule which will have at least 30 plus children and with one teacher.

If the young would be student is not able to sit for rigid hours this sets up behaviour problems for the child and difficulty for him to relate to his class mates.

To learn to be a good student is to learn to be able to adapt to his environment and also to be eager to chart out and seek new experiences.